I am in a cage

Dear readers, "I am in a cage" is my story, i am writing each words from my current life today, each words will contain my feelings and emotions, why i am saying like this...

 lets start the journey of my life:

            These days i am working in a Software company, the company is very very big, they are also giving me a good salary package to live the life better, i used to reach office daily at 8 AM in the morning, then i puts my bags and laptops on my desk and i go to gym for physical exercises, almost after 1 hour i tooks shower and comes back to my desk and starts working, i works continuously till 1 PM and then i used to go for lunch, coming from lunch till 2 PM and again work, meeting till 6 PM, after this long work i mostly feel like tiredness, then i am leaving office and starts my bike towards my home, finally i reach home, takes tea, watching TV or Youtube videos etc... and takes dinner and sleeps, and the same story begins from the next morning. From Monday to Friday the same routine is being followed strictly, even i don't have the control to break this routine, my native town is Katihar, Bihar. Once in the year i usually visits to my native town to meet my parents for a very very short time i.e one week only.

I want to stay months in my village, i want to meet my all old friends of my village, i want to visit my sister's law's home, i want to spend time with my all relatives but i can not...! taking leave is like killing someone, bosses never allowed to take leaves... even in leaves they regularly calls on phone and forces to be present in meeting, to join some session to do some task etc... it is horrible

I want to take leave to visit my native town, i want to take leave to spend long holidays, i want to take leave for riding bike for very very long distance and wanted to explore the natural places, but it never happens... I cannot leave the job and take the break because i have loans on me and every month i need money to pay loan EMI on time, i do not have the any alternate sources of income currently so that i can fulfill my desire, therefore only one source of income forces me to continue my job even if i don't want.

That's why i said " I am in a Cage ", trust me... people like me are millions and millions in the world, but they are helpless like me, i am doing brainstorming daily to find the way to get off from this situation, i am continuously thinking to find the way of making money from some other alternate sources of income, but i fail.

My Situation is almost similar to the animals & birds of zoo or the place where they lives in a cage, their power and strength becomes zero and they never do whatever they want, their life becomes slave of someone else's.

We can see the hopes and pain in the eyes of the animals for freedom, they also want to fly to long long distance, they also want to run very very fast to a big distance, but they don't. Our nation might be free but not all the creatures of the nation. Humans are the social animal, but while working in a software firm or even any private job nobody is free, nobody can take a long break and meet to all the relatives, we can have to money but not precious time.

Trust me guys, we can by anything in the world with money but few things we can not buy, those are:

"Time", "Peace", "Relatives", "Breath", "Life", "Death", "Grace", "Sacrifice", "Love" etc... there are lots of such things in the world.

The most important thing is "Time", if we have time to spend with us, with relatives, with family then we can get almost everything from the above which we cannot buy from money, But working in a private firm we only not having i.e "Time".

My mother is sick and she is in my native home ( Katihar, Bihar), i want to go home to see her and to care her but i cannot make it because recently i took leaves at Diwali last year and i went home for almost 10 days where 4 days took on travelling via train, therefore i cannot take leaves now, my heart and mind both says together i.e "Go home, spend time with family", but i cannot, i don't know what kind of happiness i am searching while working and earning money. i know there are infinite opportunities are there in market, there are millions are the way of earning money but currently my mind is not coming with any solution, i am continuously searching the ways on internet and asking from friends to get something done for finding any source of income but not getting any idea yet.

What If i find the way of alternate source of income ?

     If i will find any way of alternate sources of income then below are few things i will do in my life stepwise:

1. Mentain Saving account balance

2. Close all the liabilities

3. I will spend maximum maximum time with family at my native village.

4. I will configure my bike for touring and will buy the necessary stuffs for tour such as Camera, Riding Jackets, Gloves, Boots etc...

5. Will ride and visit each corner of the India and outside India ( neighbor countries like Bhutan, Nepal.

I have a bike of Indian company i.e Hero Xpulse 200, i bought it on 13 Oct 2019, the purpose was touring and riding it, whenever i gets time i must ride the bike on heighway, but it is just riding and running the bike due to hobby only, but my dream is going long and long, but again "Leaves", boss will gets heart attack when i mention leave word...

Is this the life we expects...

Almost all the motivational speakers and great people says that "We should live our dreams, whatever is our dream we have to work for it" but in reality it is very very difficult, at the end of every day we need money to run the family and to fulfill the requirements, and if we decide to live the dream then instant money arrangement is very very difficult task. My heart's feeling is very very critical... i want to stop going office from tomorrow and want to pack my bags for touring but i am helpless, i need to go office... What kind of life i am living...

What i am doing to live my dreams and to fulfill my all desire ?
      There is no shortcut of success, therefore i need to make a long term planning with small small short goals, i am completely moving towards the writing profession, i am writing blogs, books, poems, stories etc... i already E-Published two books on amazon i.e "India Tourism EBook" and "Love Story of an Engineer Ebook" , these are the books which i wrote with very less experience, therefore i don't know about it's writing quality but one thing i can say is it is having very very nice story inside it.
I started writing blogs actively from today, even this blog is the part of my goal therefore please provide your like and comments here, also share your suggestions related to the career where i can be the completely free and work from anywhere of the world so that i can travel and do research in order to fulfill my dreams.


Suggestion for the people like me ?
        Dear friends, if you think you are also in the same category where i am residing then my request is that you are still not late, but if you miss this time then you will be late, we all are running with the sort of time, therefore we need to work as early as possible, we need to use every second of the time, therefore start any work whatever you think is better for you and will give you financially freedom to achieve your goal, moving career from one domain to another is really very very difficult task and it sounds easy only in words, also it is not a short period, you have to believe on you and need to work years, after that only you can achieve but believe me you will definitely achieve and live your dream. There will be the situation when you will work hard but will not get any kind of output and response from the readers/customers/clients and markets, do not be panic, your time will arrive and you will be pro and rocking one day, "Just Believe on you and keep going, do not stop..."


Freedom lovers
        Guys, This is really a big big and very very big point which is loved by every single creatures of the world, even insects, bacteria, viruses and crops, everything...
We all love freedom, In this era we all are living in free country where we have all right to do everything if act does not harms anyone or anyone's belief, if our act does not disturbs anyone and our act is not anti national... wherever we want we can go, police is always there to helps us, we have government to helps us, but what about our dreams and financial condition... how it will be fulfilled, this is very critical question, i suggest everyone to live with dream even you are not earning money from it, just live it, Guys... Logically everything is difficult in this world, we cannot find anything easily, someone said "No Gain Without Pain", i just want to say that even we are living in a free country and doing whatever we can do, but if we cannot live our dream due to some condition, in this scenarios can i say that we are not completely free in terms of mental relaxation, mental satisfaction, living for our time etc...
We always need to find a way to live the dream and happy time of our life.

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Continuous thinking & small-small action takes you to the goal

Dear Readers, the title of this blog itself explains the story inside, you are correct... , it is related to our thoughts and performing steps on that, our mind is very vast thinking machine and even in case of idle when we are relaxing in that case also our mind is executing some sort of ideas and continuously rendering the memories, sentences that your heard or saw in your past, our mind is very complex and it generates high density performance of the planning, problem solving, find a way etc... Thousands of new ideas take births and dies in every hour, Our mind is working very very hard even if we are not doing anything , therefore we need to first monitor the mind to perform the specific set of action and to think for specific set of ideas, if you monitors your mind and force mind to think something then you will realize that your mind starts working for you even in case of sleeping your mind will not stop giving you the inputs, this is the power of our mind, there are numerous books and blogs on it one of the famous book is "Power of Subconscious mind", "The Secret" is the one of the best book where the same thing has been elaborated i.e "Continuous Thinking and Thinking for long time", continuous thinking sometimes takes you to the loop where you mind renders something unstoppable and you feel like you do not have the control on it and failed to stop this waves, therefore we need to little intelligent to our thinking procedure and need to diverts our mind for a while in the middle of the process, in simple just be little brilliant, everyone's mind is not equal and capable to adopt the things equally, then what should we do in this case...? lets share a story with you, my younger brother is not interested on doing study, therefore he has be qualified 10th somehow but it was very very difficult to pass in 10th for him, we were forcing him for study, he never try to read books and solving the mathematics problems, but after 10th we have sent him town for 11th he was living alone in a rented room, therefore no body was there to force him for study, and he left the college and final exam, till now he is not qualified 11th. The reason behind sharing this story is the capability of mind, i tried to motivate and make him understand many times but he never gets me properly and always he spoils his time with useless friends and meaningless chatting, he was also addicted to the chewing tobaccos, smoking and drinking. My motivation and the story of "Power of mind" never puts the impact on his brain. The conclusion is that all kind of brain is available in the world, the adoptive mind can only capable to learn something and do something better for the society and career, if you are here and reading this blog it means your are having adoptive brain to learn the concept of whole universe and change yourself, society, country, planet and galaxy. Human are different from animal only due to the brain, our brain is only the our power & strength, human rules the universe currently using this powerful brain and learning capability, therefore we should adopt the new technologies and learn as quick as possible everything, we should not spoil our time to discuss with the non adoptive brains and nonsense person because your time is precious, during that time you can learn and convert many many possibility into reality.

"When I think, that i am right and rest of all the people are wrong" in this case we need to brainstorm, we need to think deeply on that because in most of such cases you are going to the wrong direction, but in some cases your are right and rest of the world is wrong... both are the possible case, therefore we need to think think and think again on this before executing any action on it. Lets take an example for it, your younger brother wants to buy a bike, he is in matured age ( assume 25 years) you are saying that wait for 2 months then i will arrange bike for you but he still fighting and creating violent scene at home with mom, dad, your wife every day, you tried to make him understand many time but he thinks he is right and you are wrong, you explained that you have no money that time therefore you cannot buy bike for him currently, but he thinks that you have everything and all the amount for the bike, dad, mom, sister, your friends everyone tried to explain him the situation but he did not understand... Now try to put yourself in the place of your younger brother, what you should do now...? You should listen parents, elder brother and and try to understand the situation, try to understand the situation which is critical and lots of the things are much important then the bike in the family. Therefore we should listen our parents, elders carefully and then we should think about the things.

"Our Goal Is The Collection Of Small Small Thoughts & Actions" We all have dreams and goals for our life, someone wants to be IAS and someone Scientist, someone professor, someone very very rich, but we all are having a very very same and common problem, i.e "Divert from goal" Yes.... it is absolutely correct, we all are getting diverts from our goal,  therefore we need some medicine to keep focus on it i.e "Divide the big goal into tiny tiny multiple goals and set time to complete it daily or weekly", you will never loose your focus then, your continuity will be remained always.

"Life is very short, live like pro daily" It is absolutely true, we all have very short life, we should not spend our time in nonsense things, we should do the effective utilization of the time, my suggestion is to maintain distance from TV, Politics, Videos, Movies etc... if these things are not your profession, watching movies, TV & videos is not a bad things but spending days on it is a big issues, we need be very very sensitive on it. One more important thing is to identify your friend , and keep a big distance from junk friend. These acts will save your lots of time, if you have lots of time then you will invest your time to fulfill your dreams and to achieve your goal.

"Those people are very lucky who lives their dream in younger" I believe on it, because in almost 99.999% struggling people lives the dream life at their older age, but salute to those people who spends their happy time and living the dreams at younger age, those kind of people are more valuable and source of inspiration if he starts from scratch since his/her childhood, our one of the inspiration is "Steve Jobs", "Akshay kumar", "Amitabh Bachchan" etc... this is a very long list, We all are surrounded with the infinite possibility of success and opportunities, we only need to find the way.

We need to focus deeply to fulfill the dreams as early as possible, because living the dream at younger is only the fun otherwise living at old age is not an excitement, only the happiness which will makes your smile on your face because you finally got your dream even at older age. I only want to tell you that, whatever is your dream whatever you want to be, work very very very very hard for that and try to achieve at early as possible in your age, so that you cannot miss your happy and precious moment of your life.

"Don't wait for early wake up at morning, if you are not able to make it" I just want to share my thoughts on it, whatever you think is correct  please proceed with that. Most of us are always setting alarm at morning and things that we will wake up early and then we will start working or learning or whatever... we will do , but as usual what happens... we mostly not wake up at morning, and we loose our work, therefore best thing is try, try to wake up at early in the morning but if you are failed then do not try again and again, it is the wasting of the time, just leave it, and do your all the work at late night, work till the time you are not feeling complete sleepy, this tiredness will definitely grow you and give you the shine and confidence to move ahead with more energy and zeal.

Our mind is a machine and it runs on our ideas, therefore we need to feed our mind with the good ideas and positive sentences, mind always performs on the basis of feeds and force, therefore press the mind forcefully to work and get the things done from that. Our goal is tightly bounded with the power of our mind, and power of the mind is customizable using feeds of ideas and positive talks.

Filter your ideas in top 3 tags:

I hope you understood the concept, exactly what i want to say you, these levels are the filters which you need to apply on your ideas or thoughts which arises in your mind, believe me... it will completely help you to customize your thoughts, you will have very very less content to think and talk, and you will have the huge time to spend on achieving the goal, Lavel-1 includes those ideas which gives you happiness and smile on your face. Never make negative friends and keep distance from those kind of people,  try to be alone as much as possible, because in alone only your mind can concentrate on something, your focus also works strongly at your lonely time.

Again, "Continuous Thinking and Small Small action towards that takes you to the goal" never leave to think for your goal.

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I need "Time" to live happy life

Hi Friends, I am a software engineer working in MNC ( multi national company), i have almost 7 years of working experience, why i am saying like " i need time to live happy life" because i am fed up with my daily life, there is a big reason behind it, i am observing that my life is bounded and feeling like i am tied tightly with some rope, i am surrounded with walls, i am feeling suffocation inside, i really don't like to go office daily as a tight time schedule and someone from office monitor me or handle me, i think i am not the single person around the world who think like this, there are lots of survey who says like approx 70% of IT engineers want to quit their job because they are frustrated or depressed at their working area due to work load and job safety security pressure, but financial need forces to go office and work in such conditions. But it is not that much simple to quit something existing and start something very new from scratch when you have the family load and responsibilities on your shoulder to fulfill the financial need of family members and payment of EMI, current active loan where EMI is going to the bank on a fixed time then we need to maintain sufficient amount in the bank account, in this case it is really impossible to move some other domain and start new things.

Spending quality time with family is difficult
I am living in Gurgaon and my native town is Katihar ( Bihar ), i want to go home on timely basis at least once in a month, but i can't, mostly once in the year i usually visit and maximum twice for one week only in the year, it is really annoying me, it frustrating me and demotivating to live, i usually criticize my life and current situation where i am, i want to go for long holidays but always saving my leaves for home and never going for long holidays... life is not like this... this kind of life i never expected... but it is truth now, i usually think "What most we need in our life ?" Answer to this question is "More Time", "Better Health" and "less money", if our health is very good and we have time to live our dreams and spend with family then we only need less money to survive but if 


Majority of software engineers and private employees are in my category, we are no where in any quadrant of "Robert T. Kiyosaki" ( Author ), we earns money only for paying loan EMI and credit card bill, we always struggles to reduce the debts and monthly expenses but it is never ending process, we are the victim of time and happiness.

From a very long time i decided to write the facts around the society and imaginations which is in my mind, and i thought like it might be the life changing for me, i have published 2 books till date in last 2 years i.e India Tourism and Love Story of an Engineer , but did not get any success on it till now, as a 9 - 12 hours working goat i never getting the time to spend on living my dreams therefore my writing activity is very very slow therefore book is getting years on completing... sometimes i thought to make writing full time but the scenarios i wrote above ( responsibilities and EMI ) stopped me, because making carrier in a very new domain is really a time taking.

I am following many writers, motivational speakers and youtubers who triggers the people to do something excellent in the life for getting success, they always use to spear someone's else or their story to motivate the people, but don't know how it works, it might vary person to person according to their financial and family condition... i want to be financially free so that i can travel every place of India via riding the bike without any problem and issues of financial and i am sure i will do it, currently do not know how it will going to happen but i will make it happen in the coming years.
Life is very very sort, 80% people gets health down on their 45 or 50 years of age, currently young people who starts being financially free at the later age like me on 30 years those people have no time to grow almost 15 or 20 years almost, no body know the health conditions and issues coming on it, Guys ... i think we all should get the goal maximum at the age of 25 years, so that we can spend our time to live the dreams ( travelling, exploring new places, spending time with family, long long holidays etc...).

At the age of 16-17 at my school time, i was thinking like money is the thing which is really needed for all the things in the life and everything we can earn or buy from money, whatever we want we can buy and bring the stuff near us by money... and it is also not wrong in some extent, but what about peace, what about the dreams and what about the "Time", we cannot bring these three element from money, I need Time at any cost to live my life and to spend with family. As a software engineer my life is completely spoiled and working for others takes my almost all the time from my life. Most of us things this is dead end and we cannot move to other aspect of work to fulfill our dreams, and i am thinking the same currently, but i believe one day i will make the difference... wish me for this...

Believe on your hardwork

I believe on hard work, someone says like "smartwork is always better than hardwork" it's true...! but finding a smart idea to get work done is also passing through the canel of hardwork, therefore hardwork is always remains, whatever we want to achieve we need to work hard and hard for that, "Trust" is the key element which we never need to leave at any moment of life... "Trust Yourself" always. Believe that the things you are doing or planning to do will fulfill your success goal. I Thinking to give the shape of ward to the society, to the world of present, past & future, to the imagination. And it will take the huge research, afford & hard work, "a proper word of a moment only spreads magic around us", in all the extent of the life i need the support of my readers and audience.

I am working on making the habits and discipline perfect in my life, because most of the motivations individual saying this, our habits and disciplines of life makes us whatever we are, and i think it might be required in my life also.

Life is journey and we all are travelling through it, time is the vehicle on which we all are sitting and this is only the vehicle of the world which have the same speed for all the creatures... we cannot increase or decrease it's speed, in this case we need to be organised under this limitation.

You all be the witness of my journey, whatever i will be and i will not be in coming future you all be there to support me.

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