Showing posts with label dreams. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dreams. Show all posts

Sunday, 14 June 2020

Almost 1400 Kilometres long ride ( Gurgaon to Katihar )

Ride date : 5:13AM, 06-June-2020   to    3:00PM, 07-June-2020


Living dream is every one's cup of tea but what is the problem behind it, why everyone is not able to live their dream, this is million dollar question and it's answer is also million dollar, the main problem i noticed is two points:

    1. Caring about others and listing to others

    2. Do not provide 100% effort

Yes... i kept the "100% effort" point in second, the reason is effort is very necessary energy to do anything whatever you want to available in the life, but listening to others is actually a bad energy which creates a wall in front of you to restrict you for moving forward, and you will be afraid about the things after that you will not in the condition to take decision about anything in your life, you will be worried always regarding the results and people, your thinking will be transformed as "what people will think, if i fail then people must criticize etc..." If you really want to win the world then accept my suggestion "Never cares anyone". You must have heard one thing from your parents since your childhood i.e "Listen everyone but do only which you want", it is true, it is your life and you need to drive yourself, you are alone your teacher nobody is here to teach you each and every thing, your experience is the guide. The almost same thing i have completed recently, i am loving two things in my life first is "Write" and second is "Ride", writing is something which i do daily but ride is something which is occasional kind of activity because working Monday to Friday in office is very hectic time, after that we have only 2 days to complete the own work such as house cleaning and shopping, therefore i am running with the short of time for riding, i have bought "Hero Xpulse 200" bike for my riding dream, Okay... now i always wanted to go for long ride, therefore i was always finding the chance for living the city for hundreds of kilometres, finally got an opportunity in June-2020, it was the corona pandemic time, Indian government honorable prime minister Shri Narendra Modi announced the country lock down on 25-March-2020, my office was also told us to work from home, train, flight, bus, state borders etc... were closed and government appealed the nation to stay at home only, till almost 2 months we were locked at home (Gurgaon), now it was the time of "unlock-1" where government opened the state borders, few trains and flights,  IT companies were still focusing into WFH (Work from home) only, now it was good chance for people like us who works outside from home and visits native town once or twice in the year, but the challenges was the pandemic, we were not wanted to be infected because social distancing was the main factor to prohibit the infection. I wanted to come native town but my wife was not to come, i wanted to come with bike because travelling via train and flight is really not safe and we comes in the contact of the many peoples, therefore travelling with the own vehicle is good choice, therefore i wanted to come with the bike and riding bike to such a long distance ( 1400 KM almost) will fill my desire. Finally having discussed the same with my wife, she agreed, well... let me discuss the first attempt of this preparation... now we made a plan to leave Gurgaon on the early morning tomorrow, it was 23-May-2020,, i wanted to confirm few things from someone, such as "Pass is required or not" and "will we able to enter in Bihar border or not", it was the lockdown period, i have discussed with someone who already went Shivan district of Bihar from Noida with bike, he suggested me to do not go without pass, otherwise passing Bihar border will be a great challenge and might be the chance that we will be quarantine in the centers made with tent near the border area before entering into the Bihar, therefore we have changed our plan and it was cancelled.

The second attempt we mad on 4-June-2020, it was unlock period and all state borders were opened as explained few lines above, i took the leave on 5-June-2020 so that i can do some work on my bike and do some shopping for the kids who expects something from us when we will reach to the native home, so 5-June was full of preparation day, both of us worked hard and completed everything till evening and did the packaging overnight, finally we slept at 10 PM and wake up at morning 3:30 AM of 06-June-2020, it was the day when i was going to live my dream, finally we have completed all the work and completed packaging, then we took the luggage and came down towards the bike, took bike out from the home to the road, bound the luggage with bungee cots. It was 5:13 AM morning i set map into google.maps and then kept mobile in mobile bike holder, and set the mobile charging so that the battery  of the mobile cannot go down, i started the bike, now first thing was to fill up the petrol tank of the bike, i was riding bike with good speed therefore i was crossing the distance very very fast, my bike has not the good top speed but the speed was enough, it was maximum 100KMPH with full acceleration, i was riding in average 90 and sometimes 95KMPH speed. I was comfortable and enjoying the ride, but we were started feeling back pain after almost 400 kilometres, after that we started stopping in each almost 200 kilometres, i tried to cover maximum distance in the daylight and finally i have crossed Gorakhpur at evening, it was 4 PM, i had still 2 hours of daylight, i tried to cover more distance therefore i thought to travel, actually i was just watching the mobile screen to see the remaining kilometres, i was thinking to cover all the distance that day only, therefore i was not thinking about any hotels and anything to stay, but here i was actually my fault, i should also think about my wife, she was really needed rest and she wanted to stay, but i was pushing her to be seated in the bike, finally she said "i cannot sit in bike now, either book hotel or leave me here and go alone", then i started thinking seriously and looking for a stay, it was almost 9:30 PM and i was near Gopalganj, we were alone on the road and trucks were everywhere, i was also not comfortable to ride, the headlight of the bike is too bad and no lights were on the road, road's condition was also not good, i was guessing the road and riding bike, it was too dangerous experience, many times i took bike into big pit of roads, it was very very dangerous, now i had no option, i was not finding any good places to stay, even there were no street lights, only darkness was everywhere,  i was afraid this time. After an hours almost it was 11PM, we saw a good hotels in Mujaffarpur, we were happy to see the hotel, i have booked the room and did rest whole night, woke up at 7 AM morning, been fresh, ate something and did hotel checkout, after that we came down with stuffs and kept everything in the bike, and left Mujaffarpur, a new morning was complete fresh and full of energy to start new journey, after almost 4 hours we reached Purnia, my wife's elder brother came to meet us, we spent few hours there, we did lunch in a hotel. I just wanted to take a bath and a deep sleep because the roads of Bihar are very rough, and riding in such conditions is a very big task, I was not really enjoying riding on such roads, riding in such roads are like punishment. We finished all the meeting activity and lunch and left the hotel again, her brother also returned to their place, i reached my home almost 3 PM. I was tired, I just went to the washroom, took a bath, after that I took food and went to sleep.


I have covered almost 1400 kilometres, it was an awesome ride experience. The most panic situation was the tension of fuel, in Lucknow expressway the petrol pumps are in almost 100 kilometres of distance, i was not aware about this thing, i was running shortage of the patrol and i was not finding the patrol pumps, i  have slow the speed of bike and looking both side of the road, even i had 2 extra litres of the patrol in a bottle but still anxious about the petrol pump, i just wanted to full my petrol tank. I was in tension, after almost 40 kilometres i saw the patrol pump and went there refueled the bike, we also stayed there and ate something, we also needed break.


Another panic condition was riding into night, i have learned a lesson in this long ride, the lesson is "Never try to ride at night"... yes, we should not ride at night because it is very risky, few problem are visibility, trucks covers all space of the road, no shops of mechanic for bike issues etc... due to low visibility road pits are not clearly visible, stones and speed breakers are also not easily visible, there is also a chance that bike can collide to any other standing vehicle, highly chance of accident due to heavy truck also truck drivers are driving roughly and less cares about other small vehicle at night, the last one point which i observed which is "issues on bike", yes...  all shops including hotels are being closed, people sleeps, in this condition if any issue happens on bike or you need any help then you cannot even call to anybody, also many more fear about crime such as murder, robbery etc... 


Never ride at night... This is only the thing which should be considered for all the riders, I made this mistake and this was my first and last mistake, ride till day end after that book a hotel stay.



Above few points are very important, whatever... i have lived a dream and created a story of my life for sharing to others, to remember at old age and story of happiness, dare, will power etc... but what i think...! I think this was the start, i will do more long rides, i will do all India rides, if possible i will ride till Bhutan & Thailand.


That's all about my dream story.


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Sunday, 12 April 2020

Story

Story is the reflation of the society, it spreads the knowledge & information to all, it gives us the capability to increase the imagination & visualization power to our mind. There is a very old proverb in the society i.e "Books are the best friend", we all should read and write a lot always, because reading helps to get in and extract information from the page and write helps others to get and extract information, whatever experience you have in your life you should write, if you are a student then you must write the learning and research contents. If you are a professional, whatever profession you have that does not matter just you should write your learning, knowledge and findings at the end of the every day, if you are not able to write end of each day then at least sit to write twice in the week, i found the everything of our life is like story, each and everything is like a story, "the universe starts after a big explosion" i.e big-bang this is the fact which is explained using a story, our daily work is a story, a famous man has a story behind his life, a great actor, scientist, player, leader has a story behind them, a country, planet, galaxy, solar system, universe every thins has the story and contains the certain words to define themselves, and these all things can be explained by words, the information can be distributed using the content only. The most common thing which we daily see, hear and feel i.e media & movies... these contents are also based on a written content which is well organized and well edited before processing it, i think one day human's existence and it's development from the initial time to modern will be completely history which is again a story and combination of words. I just wanted to motivate you to write you knowledge and story so that others can read and learn from your experience and mistakes. Our brain and habits are two assets, this is only the valuable thing that we have with us always, i believe... that if you have both you will never loose anything in your life and if you loosed also then you must will get better later... hence we need to work only in this two items, i already written a blog on the mind's power... our mind is running on the top of our idea, we can say that the idea or positive/negative sentences are the feeds of brain, our brain does not recognize the type of idea or sentences... mind just receives it as a feed and immediately starts reacting on it, even in case you deep sleep also mind continues thinking producing some fruitful data on those feeds, therefore we need to make sure always that what kind of feed we sends to our brain. That was the one thing another is the brain storming exercise... if we really need to keep mind healthy and functioned properly always then we need to generate force inside the brain to think something and getting solution, here one thing i just wanted to highlight i.e "Sorrow" & "Worry"  should not be the reason to think or brain storming, because in both this case brain functions differently. For example mathematical calculations, data structure questions, computer programmings etc... these are the portion of thinking where you should involve your mind to think strongly, or if you have any research topic then involve your complete mind into that and find the solution, our brain is completely depends on us that how we utilize it and how we get the work done from it. Another asset is habits, yes... habit is very very powerful thing in our life, habit only decides about our success and failure, it decides about rich and poor... our current situation is having the strong connection with our habits... i hope you understand... therefore we need to work on our habits in order to generate the good result and positive environment surrounding us. Just define certain things in your life "Take a continuous deep sleep" why i am saying this, most of the people sleeps in pieces like 2 hours in day and then 8 hours in night or something like this... this is not correct, i think you should not sleep in day time, just sleep at night and sleep continuously 7/8/9 whatever hours you want but when wake up do not go to bed, keep working and spend your time as active hours, do no relax on bed and do not sleep, one more important thing is whenever you are going to bed "do not use mobile phones or laptops/tablets to watch anything" just try to sleep. you active hours make the difference in your life.
Another good habit is "Work with timestamp" i already wrote a blog on this Set priority and timestamp for each task, here i tried to explain that the fixed time and it's priority helps to perform better always, likewise you can also cover more work in the shortest time, so attaching a fixed time with all the tasks is very very necessary, therefore make it as your habit. "Our Active hours should be active as much as possible" why i am saying this...! because our active hours are those hours where we perform and acts on something, this is only the time to generate something. I have gathered few points to discuss and share my views on it, below are those topics

Why we should read ?
Million dollar questions which has been discussed many times, almost all the intellectuals of the world has been explained this particular topic with others thousands of time, reading gives us a very very great capability i.e "imagination & visualization", except reading only silent thinking process provides this capability, therefore reading is more important, our brain creates a real road-map for us to step into the life on the basis of imagination and visualization, how we imagine our life is depends on the mental power and positive feeds given to the brain. Our mind walks on the words of the books and creates images accordingly inside the mind, the story of the page creates a video inside the brain, one page to other page, other page to another page... this trip aligns the story inside the mind and built a great high quality visualization... this visualization process boost our mind and repairs the dead memory and boost all the hidden memories. Ancient histories, knowledge, literature gives us the high quality knowledge, we are living in the digital era therefore the information available into books and papers are being copied to digital form, we have infinite books and papers in the libraries to read and learn the knowledge those books and papers are still not converted into video content and i think it is not possible also,
watching screen continuously is not a good habit because the light of LCD is harmful and it dry liquid of our eye, watching is something we can spend lots of hours in front of the electronic display devices but for reading it does not works, because we try to put our all the afford and gives 100% attentions to recognize the words/sentences and to understand the meaning of it, therefore reading is very very painful on the LCD screen, so reading on the page is still best practice. Keeping a book is also very easy than other electronic devices. Video content is okay for entertainment and other things for the short period but i just want to ask one question on it... have you ever realized that the memories of video is not remain for the long period in our mind...? we forget it very quickly, i think the reason behind is that our mind does not works on the information collected by eyes...  Hindu saints or the ancient researchers written their invention and knowledge into books which is broadly available in the libraries, ancient time's machine & weapons are well explained into those books, also the formula to build those thing are depicted, we only need to select the book and decode them, but this will come only due to reading habit instead of wasting time on unnecessary videos, there are huge knowledge are available and kept in the pages, we need to search and grab this,  Therefore read read read and read always...

Why we should write ?
Well... in above we understood the importance of reading, now it's time to understand the importance of writing,  i know most of the people has "writing as a habit", therefore whatever happens in their life they just writes it, whatever we know, imagine, learn, research, invent etc... we all need to write those thing so that we cannot forget it and the written content help others to learn. Writing is the best way to share the experience which help others always even after you, even after hundred/thousands year after you, in this case your name will be alive always and human being never forget you.

People surrounding us are really working hard on the contents to make our life entertaining and easy, they works hard on the content to increase their profits in the business, peoples like singers and recording studios are continuously working hard to create good stories and songs to distribute among the societies. Hence we should also work hard to spread the awareness in the form of words, we also work to provide the proper words for emotions and societies to grow and improvemet.


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Wednesday, 5 February 2020

Don't know where my life drives me

Dear Readers, we lives in the era of high population, therefore we have the high competition where everyone fights to  get up and forcing others towards down. In this condition the life is full of challenge and hurdles, everyone has the vision and dreams of their life and they fights to fulfill it as soon as possible, everyone is the victim of these forces which is applied by someone else on them, can you suggest the name of this invisible force ? what should be the proper name of this force ? well first lets understand the force, what force is this "The individual or group who in the competition of life or success kicks someone to be up, in simple everyone wants to defeat someone else", even if you don't want or in your senses you are not doing it then also we are the part of these forces, this is more in corporate life. We all are wanted to live a better life always, we all wanted to earn money and live dreams in our life, but it never happens that simple that we think, every step of the life we face new hurdles, each new problems needs proper solution and so on... Lets understand it from the very beginning of the life since childhood, we all completes the schooling and college then we struggles to find job, once we finds job our lifestyle become change, we starts moving towards different zone of life. Most of the people realizes their dreams after working few years and very less people realizes their dream very very early phase of life, and this is the turning point. If we recognizes our dreams as early as possible then we can starts living dreams very early because our action tends towards it, but people like me who recognize their dream very very late in the life, then moving from one profession to other is very difficult, lets get very simple... suppose you are software professional and working in a company, you are married and living very far from native town, you are working day and night and after 30 days you are getting paid, you cannot take leaves because either you already took or project is very critical, in this case if you want to take break and want to spend some times with family than it becomes a big issue, here money does not matters the only thing matters i.e "Time", in this case you will feel like someone tied you with rope and you are bound to listen someone always, someone is sick in your family in native town and you need to go at your home for that and at least you need one week leave for it, what you will do now ??? this is really a very difficult... even this stage of life is very very difficult... i am into the same situation this time, and there are billions of people like me in the earth, i am forcing my mind to think and find a way to get out from this situation but not getting the solution, multiple time i did the brainstorming, planning and calculating the things but unable to settle the stuffs yet, believe me guys… if you have family and financial load on you then thinking a new things is very difficult in your life, in this case moving towards new business or profession where you will be financial free is risky. But anyhow we need to work for our future and dream then we need to keep working and speed up the struggle to achieve it, I am writing this because I don’t know what is happening with me currently, I don’t like working in the company currently, I don’t like someone tie me on their rules and disciplines, I am thinking “why such feeling was not came to me earlier when I was doing study ?”, really “late inputs always produces late outputs”, when I was in school my father always used to say “कुछ काम करो कुछ काम करो,जग में रहकर कुछ नाम करो”(In English: do some work do some work spread name while living in the world), this statement is itself very powerful and it impacts different into different minds, it simply means that your life should not be spoiled or do something so that the world recognize you after your death. I was very motivated from this line and wanted to become scientist at my childhood, but time is only the critical constraints which moves regarding the need of the family. I observed that each phase of life contains the different requirement and different desire gets up, in childhood a good education and good marks is the key requirement, once 10th cleared our requirement is to get the admission in a good college, once we gets the admission in a college then good marks and good understanding of subjects are the prime focus, once degree completes individuals starts searching for good job and struggle continues until you find a good job to survive the life then marriage, children, parents responsibility etc… in these conditions you gets completely lost in your life and even you forget yourself that exactly what you are…!! Maximum number of people does not recognize themselves till end of their life but few of them returns and looks back in the life and think that “where I am going… what kind of life I am living and what I want to be ?” if you think like this then you are among those people who can make difference in the society. Till this point my life is self-driven, it looks like i did not drived it but now i looked back in life and imagining it, very popular Hindi proverb told by someone i.e “जब जागो तब सवेरा” in English “When You Wake Up then morning”, even if we realize reality of life late very late in our life then also there is the hope to do something better to make the life more meaningful.
We always try to drive our life according to our norms and rules, but it not happens easily, most of the people around the world has no senses at childhood and they just waste the life while doing nonsense stuffs, very less number of person around the world have senses to correct the mistakes at young because young boy and girls have their focus on love and sex and they wastes their huge time on this, likewise half of the life wastes and half remains, Now you can think what we need to do and how to make difference in the society or live the dreams.
If you are reading this blog and you are at your schools currently then it is my request to you that please please please do not waste your times on unnecessary videos, movies, social networking sites & chatting with duplicate friends etc… please recognize your dreams and start performing action towards it, do not go for job, do something to be completely financially free, do more and more research, do invention, do discovery etc… Please read more and do not forget to write your thoughts, findings and study on paper or any blogging sites. Why I am requesting you to do such things ? The reason behind this is you have huge amount of time to spend on the things, and the chances to be diverted from the main stream is more, therefore I am requesting you to recognize your dreams as early as possible in your current age, so that you can be completely retire at your young age and then you relax in remaining time of life, and during this time you will completely enjoy.

Self-driven life is very critical phase
As I already explained about Self-driven life and life driven by you, the self-driven life is dangerous and target less, you are like a dry wood over the river there, because you direction is set by time and life conditions not you creates, you eight just solves the problems of life or leave the problem, you will not have any recognition here, after your death no body will know because you didn’t do anything for the people. Therefore drive your life from the beginning of life.

You are never late in your life for start anything.
It is true guys, “Late” is not the word in the life, we are never late to start anything, if you think that there should be something to improve yourself, improve business, improve something in society, innovation etc… then you are really not late, if you think that your life was completely waste till your current age but now you want to change the things and move required then I will say that “Move” just change the things. There are so many examples in the society, you can looks around and find such people. Therefore never get the things wrong and don’t think you are late to do something, you still have the hope of start something very new.

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Monday, 27 January 2020

I am in a cage

Dear readers, "I am in a cage" is my story, i am writing each words from my current life today, each words will contain my feelings and emotions, why i am saying like this...

 lets start the journey of my life:
            These days i am working in a Software company, the company is very very big, they are also giving me a good salary package to live the life better, i used to reach office daily at 8 AM in the morning, then i puts my bags and laptops on my desk and i go to gym for physical exercises, almost after 1 hour i tooks shower and comes back to my desk and starts working, i works continuously till 1 PM and then i used to go for lunch, coming from lunch till 2 PM and again work, meeting till 6 PM, after this long work i mostly feel like tiredness, then i am leaving office and starts my bike towards my home, finally i reach home, takes tea, watching TV or Youtube videos etc... and takes dinner and sleeps, and the same story begins from the next morning. From Monday to Friday the same routine is being followed strictly, even i don't have the control to break this routine, my native town is Katihar, Bihar. Once in the year i usually visits to my native town to meet my parents for a very very short time i.e one week only.
I want to stay months in my village, i want to meet my all old friends of my village, i want to visit my sister's law's home, i want to spend time with my all relatives but i can not...! taking leave is like killing someone, bosses never allowed to take leaves... even in leaves they regularly calls on phone and forces to be present in meeting, to join some session to do some task etc... it is horrible
I want to take leave to visit my native town, i want to take leave to spend long holidays, i want to take leave for riding bike for very very long distance and wanted to explore the natural places, but it never happens... I cannot leave the job and take the break because i have loans on me and every month i need money to pay loan EMI on time, i do not have the any alternate sources of income currently so that i can fulfill my desire, therefore only one source of income forces me to continue my job even if i don't want.
That's why i said " I am in a Cage ", trust me... people like me are millions and millions in the world, but they are helpless like me, i am doing brainstorming daily to find the way to get off from this situation, i am continuously thinking to find the way of making money from some other alternate sources of income, but i fail.
My Situation is almost similar to the animals & birds of zoo or the place where they lives in a cage, their power and strength becomes zero and they never do whatever they want, their life becomes slave of someone else's.


We can see the hopes and pain in the eyes of the animals for freedom, they also want to fly to long long distance, they also want to run very very fast to a big distance, but they don't. Our nation might be free but not all the creatures of the nation. Humans are the social animal, but while working in a software firm or even any private job nobody is free, nobody can take a long break and meet to all the relatives, we can have to money but not precious time.

Trust me guys, we can by anything in the world with money but few things we can not buy, those are:
"Time", "Peace", "Relatives", "Breath", "Life", "Death", "Grace", "Sacrifice", "Love" etc... there are lots of such things in the world.

The most important thing is "Time", if we have time to spend with us, with relatives, with family then we can get almost everything from the above which we cannot buy from money, But working in a private firm we only not having i.e "Time".

My mother is sick and she is in my native home ( Katihar, Bihar), i want to go home to see her and to care her but i cannot make it because recently i took leaves at Diwali last year and i went home for almost 10 days where 4 days took on travelling via train, therefore i cannot take leaves now, my heart and mind both says together i.e "Go home, spend time with family", but i cannot, i don't know what kind of happiness i am searching while working and earning money. i know there are infinite opportunities are there in market, there are millions are the way of earning money but currently my mind is not coming with any solution, i am continuously searching the ways on internet and asking from friends to get something done for finding any source of income but not getting any idea yet.

What If i find the way of alternate source of income ?
     If i will find any way of alternate sources of income then below are few things i will do in my life stepwise:
1. Mentain Saving account balance
2. Close all the liabilities
3. I will spend maximum maximum time with family at my native village.
4. I will configure my bike for touring and will buy the necessary stuffs for tour such as Camera, Riding Jackets, Gloves, Boots etc...
5. Will ride and visit each corner of the India and outside India ( neighbor countries like Bhutan, Nepal.
I have a bike of Indian company i.e Hero Xpulse 200, i bought it on 13 Oct 2019, the purpose was touring and riding it, whenever i gets time i must ride the bike on heighway, but it is just riding and running the bike due to hobby only, but my dream is going long and long, but again "Leaves", boss will gets heart attack when i mention leave word...
Is this the life we expects...
Almost all the motivational speakers and great people says that "We should live our dreams, whatever is our dream we have to work for it" but in reality it is very very difficult, at the end of every day we need money to run the family and to fulfill the requirements, and if we decide to live the dream then instant money arrangement is very very difficult task. My heart's feeling is very very critical... i want to stop going office from tomorrow and want to pack my bags for touring but i am helpless, i need to go office... What kind of life i am living...

What i am doing to live my dreams and to fulfill my all desire ?
      There is no shortcut of success, therefore i need to make a long term planning with small small short goals, i am completely moving towards the writing profession, i am writing blogs, books, poems, stories etc... i already E-Published two books on amazon i.e "
India Tourism EBook" and "Love Story of an Engineer Ebook" , these are the books which i wrote with very less experience, therefore i don't know about it's writing quality but one thing i can say is it is having very very nice story inside it.
I started writing blogs actively from today, even this blog is the part of my goal therefore please provide your like and comments here, also share your suggestions related to the career where i can be the completely free and work from anywhere of the world so that i can travel and do research in order to fulfill my dreams.


Suggestion for the people like me ?
        Dear friends, if you think you are also in the same category where i am residing then my request is that you are still not late, but if you miss this time then you will be late, we all are running with the sort of time, therefore we need to work as early as possible, we need to use every second of the time, therefore start any work whatever you think is better for you and will give you financially freedom to achieve your goal, moving career from one domain to another is really very very difficult task and it sounds easy only in words, also it is not a short period, you have to believe on you and need to work years, after that only you can achieve but believe me you will definitely achieve and live your dream. There will be the situation when you will work hard but will not get any kind of output and response from the readers/customers/clients and markets, do not be panic, your time will arrive and you will be pro and rocking one day, "Just Believe on you and keep going, do not stop..."


Freedom lovers
        Guys, This is really a big big and very very big point which is loved by every single creatures of the world, even insects, bacteria, viruses and crops, everything...
We all love freedom, In this era we all are living in free country where we have all right to do everything if act does not harms anyone or anyone's belief, if our act does not disturbs anyone and our act is not anti national... wherever we want we can go, police is always there to helps us, we have government to helps us, but what about our dreams and financial condition... how it will be fulfilled, this is very critical question, i suggest everyone to live with dream even you are not earning money from it, just live it, Guys... Logically everything is difficult in this world, we cannot find anything easily, someone said "No Gain Without Pain", i just want to say that even we are living in a free country and doing whatever we can do, but if we cannot live our dream due to some condition, in this scenarios can i say that we are not completely free in terms of mental relaxation, mental satisfaction, living for our time etc...
We always need to find a way to live the dream and happy time of our life.

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Saturday, 4 January 2020

I need "Time" to live happy life

Hi Friends, I am a software engineer working in MNC ( multi national company), i have almost 7 years of working experience, why i am saying like " i need time to live happy life" because i am fed up with my daily life, there is a big reason behind it, i am observing that my life is bounded and feeling like i am tied tightly with some rope, i am surrounded with walls, i am feeling suffocation inside, i really don't like to go office daily as a tight time schedule and someone from office monitor me or handle me, i think i am not the single person around the world who think like this, there are lots of survey who says like approx 70% of IT engineers want to quit their job because they are frustrated or depressed at their working area due to work load and job safety security pressure, but financial need forces to go office and work in such conditions. But it is not that much simple to quit something existing and start something very new from scratch when you have the family load and responsibilities on your shoulder to fulfill the financial need of family members and payment of EMI, current active loan where EMI is going to the bank on a fixed time then we need to maintain sufficient amount in the bank account, in this case it is really impossible to move some other domain and start new things.

Spending quality time with family is difficult
I am living in Gurgaon and my native town is Katihar ( Bihar ), i want to go home on timely basis at least once in a month, but i can't, mostly once in the year i usually visit and maximum twice for one week only in the year, it is really annoying me, it frustrating me and demotivating to live, i usually criticize my life and current situation where i am, i want to go for long holidays but always saving my leaves for home and never going for long holidays... life is not like this... this kind of life i never expected... but it is truth now, i usually think "What most we need in our life ?" Answer to this question is "More Time", "Better Health" and "less money", if our health is very good and we have time to live our dreams and spend with family then we only need less money to survive but if 


Majority of software engineers and private employees are in my category, we are no where in any quadrant of "Robert T. Kiyosaki" ( Author ), we earns money only for paying loan EMI and credit card bill, we always struggles to reduce the debts and monthly expenses but it is never ending process, we are the victim of time and happiness.

From a very long time i decided to write the facts around the society and imaginations which is in my mind, and i thought like it might be the life changing for me, i have published 2 books till date in last 2 years i.e India Tourism and Love Story of an Engineer , but did not get any success on it till now, as a 9 - 12 hours working goat i never getting the time to spend on living my dreams therefore my writing activity is very very slow therefore book is getting years on completing... sometimes i thought to make writing full time but the scenarios i wrote above ( responsibilities and EMI ) stopped me, because making carrier in a very new domain is really a time taking.

I am following many writers, motivational speakers and youtubers who triggers the people to do something excellent in the life for getting success, they always use to spear someone's else or their story to motivate the people, but don't know how it works, it might vary person to person according to their financial and family condition... i want to be financially free so that i can travel every place of India via riding the bike without any problem and issues of financial and i am sure i will do it, currently do not know how it will going to happen but i will make it happen in the coming years.
Life is very very sort, 80% people gets health down on their 45 or 50 years of age, currently young people who starts being financially free at the later age like me on 30 years those people have no time to grow almost 15 or 20 years almost, no body know the health conditions and issues coming on it, Guys ... i think we all should get the goal maximum at the age of 25 years, so that we can spend our time to live the dreams ( travelling, exploring new places, spending time with family, long long holidays etc...).

















At the age of 16-17 at my school time, i was thinking like money is the thing which is really needed for all the things in the life and everything we can earn or buy from money, whatever we want we can buy and bring the stuff near us by money... and it is also not wrong in some extent, but what about peace, what about the dreams and what about the "Time", we cannot bring these three element from money, I need Time at any cost to live my life and to spend with family. As a software engineer my life is completely spoiled and working for others takes my almost all the time from my life. Most of us things this is dead end and we cannot move to other aspect of work to fulfill our dreams, and i am thinking the same currently, but i believe one day i will make the difference... wish me for this...


Believe on your hardwork
I believe on hard work, someone says like "smartwork is always better than hardwork" it's true...! but finding a smart idea to get work done is also passing through the canel of hardwork, therefore hardwork is always remains, whatever we want to achieve we need to work hard and hard for that, "Trust" is the key element which we never need to leave at any moment of life... "Trust Yourself" always. Believe that the things you are doing or planning to do will fulfill your success goal. I Thinking to give the shape of ward to the society, to the world of present, past & future, to the imagination. And it will take the huge research, afford & hard work, "a proper word of a moment only spreads magic around us", in all the extent of the life i need the support of my readers and audience.


I am working on making the habits and discipline perfect in my life, because most of the motivations individual saying this, our habits and disciplines of life makes us whatever we are, and i think it might be required in my life also.

Life is journey and we all are travelling through it, time is the vehicle on which we all are sitting and this is only the vehicle of the world which have the same speed for all the creatures... we cannot increase or decrease it's speed, in this case we need to be organised under this limitation.

You all be the witness of my journey, whatever i will be and i will not be in coming future you all be there to support me.

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