Wednesday 5 February 2020

Don't know where my life drives me

Dear Readers, we lives in the era of high population, therefore we have the high competition where everyone fights to  get up and forcing others towards down. In this condition the life is full of challenge and hurdles, everyone has the vision and dreams of their life and they fights to fulfill it as soon as possible, everyone is the victim of these forces which is applied by someone else on them, can you suggest the name of this invisible force ? what should be the proper name of this force ? well first lets understand the force, what force is this "The individual or group who in the competition of life or success kicks someone to be up, in simple everyone wants to defeat someone else", even if you don't want or in your senses you are not doing it then also we are the part of these forces, this is more in corporate life. We all are wanted to live a better life always, we all wanted to earn money and live dreams in our life, but it never happens that simple that we think, every step of the life we face new hurdles, each new problems needs proper solution and so on... Lets understand it from the very beginning of the life since childhood, we all completes the schooling and college then we struggles to find job, once we finds job our lifestyle become change, we starts moving towards different zone of life. Most of the people realizes their dreams after working few years and very less people realizes their dream very very early phase of life, and this is the turning point. If we recognizes our dreams as early as possible then we can starts living dreams very early because our action tends towards it, but people like me who recognize their dream very very late in the life, then moving from one profession to other is very difficult, lets get very simple... suppose you are software professional and working in a company, you are married and living very far from native town, you are working day and night and after 30 days you are getting paid, you cannot take leaves because either you already took or project is very critical, in this case if you want to take break and want to spend some times with family than it becomes a big issue, here money does not matters the only thing matters i.e "Time", in this case you will feel like someone tied you with rope and you are bound to listen someone always, someone is sick in your family in native town and you need to go at your home for that and at least you need one week leave for it, what you will do now ??? this is really a very difficult... even this stage of life is very very difficult... i am into the same situation this time, and there are billions of people like me in the earth, i am forcing my mind to think and find a way to get out from this situation but not getting the solution, multiple time i did the brainstorming, planning and calculating the things but unable to settle the stuffs yet, believe me guys… if you have family and financial load on you then thinking a new things is very difficult in your life, in this case moving towards new business or profession where you will be financial free is risky. But anyhow we need to work for our future and dream then we need to keep working and speed up the struggle to achieve it, I am writing this because I don’t know what is happening with me currently, I don’t like working in the company currently, I don’t like someone tie me on their rules and disciplines, I am thinking “why such feeling was not came to me earlier when I was doing study ?”, really “late inputs always produces late outputs”, when I was in school my father always used to say “कुछ काम करो कुछ काम करो,जग में रहकर कुछ नाम करो”(In English: do some work do some work spread name while living in the world), this statement is itself very powerful and it impacts different into different minds, it simply means that your life should not be spoiled or do something so that the world recognize you after your death. I was very motivated from this line and wanted to become scientist at my childhood, but time is only the critical constraints which moves regarding the need of the family. I observed that each phase of life contains the different requirement and different desire gets up, in childhood a good education and good marks is the key requirement, once 10th cleared our requirement is to get the admission in a good college, once we gets the admission in a college then good marks and good understanding of subjects are the prime focus, once degree completes individuals starts searching for good job and struggle continues until you find a good job to survive the life then marriage, children, parents responsibility etc… in these conditions you gets completely lost in your life and even you forget yourself that exactly what you are…!! Maximum number of people does not recognize themselves till end of their life but few of them returns and looks back in the life and think that “where I am going… what kind of life I am living and what I want to be ?” if you think like this then you are among those people who can make difference in the society. Till this point my life is self-driven, it looks like i did not drived it but now i looked back in life and imagining it, very popular Hindi proverb told by someone i.e “जब जागो तब सवेरा” in English “When You Wake Up then morning”, even if we realize reality of life late very late in our life then also there is the hope to do something better to make the life more meaningful.
We always try to drive our life according to our norms and rules, but it not happens easily, most of the people around the world has no senses at childhood and they just waste the life while doing nonsense stuffs, very less number of person around the world have senses to correct the mistakes at young because young boy and girls have their focus on love and sex and they wastes their huge time on this, likewise half of the life wastes and half remains, Now you can think what we need to do and how to make difference in the society or live the dreams.
If you are reading this blog and you are at your schools currently then it is my request to you that please please please do not waste your times on unnecessary videos, movies, social networking sites & chatting with duplicate friends etc… please recognize your dreams and start performing action towards it, do not go for job, do something to be completely financially free, do more and more research, do invention, do discovery etc… Please read more and do not forget to write your thoughts, findings and study on paper or any blogging sites. Why I am requesting you to do such things ? The reason behind this is you have huge amount of time to spend on the things, and the chances to be diverted from the main stream is more, therefore I am requesting you to recognize your dreams as early as possible in your current age, so that you can be completely retire at your young age and then you relax in remaining time of life, and during this time you will completely enjoy.

Self-driven life is very critical phase
As I already explained about Self-driven life and life driven by you, the self-driven life is dangerous and target less, you are like a dry wood over the river there, because you direction is set by time and life conditions not you creates, you eight just solves the problems of life or leave the problem, you will not have any recognition here, after your death no body will know because you didn’t do anything for the people. Therefore drive your life from the beginning of life.

You are never late in your life for start anything.
It is true guys, “Late” is not the word in the life, we are never late to start anything, if you think that there should be something to improve yourself, improve business, improve something in society, innovation etc… then you are really not late, if you think that your life was completely waste till your current age but now you want to change the things and move required then I will say that “Move” just change the things. There are so many examples in the society, you can looks around and find such people. Therefore never get the things wrong and don’t think you are late to do something, you still have the hope of start something very new.

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