Showing posts with label better life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label better life. Show all posts

Wednesday, 5 February 2020

Don't know where my life drives me

Dear Readers, we lives in the era of high population, therefore we have the high competition where everyone fights to  get up and forcing others towards down. In this condition the life is full of challenge and hurdles, everyone has the vision and dreams of their life and they fights to fulfill it as soon as possible, everyone is the victim of these forces which is applied by someone else on them, can you suggest the name of this invisible force ? what should be the proper name of this force ? well first lets understand the force, what force is this "The individual or group who in the competition of life or success kicks someone to be up, in simple everyone wants to defeat someone else", even if you don't want or in your senses you are not doing it then also we are the part of these forces, this is more in corporate life. We all are wanted to live a better life always, we all wanted to earn money and live dreams in our life, but it never happens that simple that we think, every step of the life we face new hurdles, each new problems needs proper solution and so on... Lets understand it from the very beginning of the life since childhood, we all completes the schooling and college then we struggles to find job, once we finds job our lifestyle become change, we starts moving towards different zone of life. Most of the people realizes their dreams after working few years and very less people realizes their dream very very early phase of life, and this is the turning point. If we recognizes our dreams as early as possible then we can starts living dreams very early because our action tends towards it, but people like me who recognize their dream very very late in the life, then moving from one profession to other is very difficult, lets get very simple... suppose you are software professional and working in a company, you are married and living very far from native town, you are working day and night and after 30 days you are getting paid, you cannot take leaves because either you already took or project is very critical, in this case if you want to take break and want to spend some times with family than it becomes a big issue, here money does not matters the only thing matters i.e "Time", in this case you will feel like someone tied you with rope and you are bound to listen someone always, someone is sick in your family in native town and you need to go at your home for that and at least you need one week leave for it, what you will do now ??? this is really a very difficult... even this stage of life is very very difficult... i am into the same situation this time, and there are billions of people like me in the earth, i am forcing my mind to think and find a way to get out from this situation but not getting the solution, multiple time i did the brainstorming, planning and calculating the things but unable to settle the stuffs yet, believe me guys… if you have family and financial load on you then thinking a new things is very difficult in your life, in this case moving towards new business or profession where you will be financial free is risky. But anyhow we need to work for our future and dream then we need to keep working and speed up the struggle to achieve it, I am writing this because I don’t know what is happening with me currently, I don’t like working in the company currently, I don’t like someone tie me on their rules and disciplines, I am thinking “why such feeling was not came to me earlier when I was doing study ?”, really “late inputs always produces late outputs”, when I was in school my father always used to say “कुछ काम करो कुछ काम करो,जग में रहकर कुछ नाम करो”(In English: do some work do some work spread name while living in the world), this statement is itself very powerful and it impacts different into different minds, it simply means that your life should not be spoiled or do something so that the world recognize you after your death. I was very motivated from this line and wanted to become scientist at my childhood, but time is only the critical constraints which moves regarding the need of the family. I observed that each phase of life contains the different requirement and different desire gets up, in childhood a good education and good marks is the key requirement, once 10th cleared our requirement is to get the admission in a good college, once we gets the admission in a college then good marks and good understanding of subjects are the prime focus, once degree completes individuals starts searching for good job and struggle continues until you find a good job to survive the life then marriage, children, parents responsibility etc… in these conditions you gets completely lost in your life and even you forget yourself that exactly what you are…!! Maximum number of people does not recognize themselves till end of their life but few of them returns and looks back in the life and think that “where I am going… what kind of life I am living and what I want to be ?” if you think like this then you are among those people who can make difference in the society. Till this point my life is self-driven, it looks like i did not drived it but now i looked back in life and imagining it, very popular Hindi proverb told by someone i.e “जब जागो तब सवेरा” in English “When You Wake Up then morning”, even if we realize reality of life late very late in our life then also there is the hope to do something better to make the life more meaningful.
We always try to drive our life according to our norms and rules, but it not happens easily, most of the people around the world has no senses at childhood and they just waste the life while doing nonsense stuffs, very less number of person around the world have senses to correct the mistakes at young because young boy and girls have their focus on love and sex and they wastes their huge time on this, likewise half of the life wastes and half remains, Now you can think what we need to do and how to make difference in the society or live the dreams.
If you are reading this blog and you are at your schools currently then it is my request to you that please please please do not waste your times on unnecessary videos, movies, social networking sites & chatting with duplicate friends etc… please recognize your dreams and start performing action towards it, do not go for job, do something to be completely financially free, do more and more research, do invention, do discovery etc… Please read more and do not forget to write your thoughts, findings and study on paper or any blogging sites. Why I am requesting you to do such things ? The reason behind this is you have huge amount of time to spend on the things, and the chances to be diverted from the main stream is more, therefore I am requesting you to recognize your dreams as early as possible in your current age, so that you can be completely retire at your young age and then you relax in remaining time of life, and during this time you will completely enjoy.

Self-driven life is very critical phase
As I already explained about Self-driven life and life driven by you, the self-driven life is dangerous and target less, you are like a dry wood over the river there, because you direction is set by time and life conditions not you creates, you eight just solves the problems of life or leave the problem, you will not have any recognition here, after your death no body will know because you didn’t do anything for the people. Therefore drive your life from the beginning of life.

You are never late in your life for start anything.
It is true guys, “Late” is not the word in the life, we are never late to start anything, if you think that there should be something to improve yourself, improve business, improve something in society, innovation etc… then you are really not late, if you think that your life was completely waste till your current age but now you want to change the things and move required then I will say that “Move” just change the things. There are so many examples in the society, you can looks around and find such people. Therefore never get the things wrong and don’t think you are late to do something, you still have the hope of start something very new.

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Monday, 27 January 2020

I am in a cage

Dear readers, "I am in a cage" is my story, i am writing each words from my current life today, each words will contain my feelings and emotions, why i am saying like this...

 lets start the journey of my life:
            These days i am working in a Software company, the company is very very big, they are also giving me a good salary package to live the life better, i used to reach office daily at 8 AM in the morning, then i puts my bags and laptops on my desk and i go to gym for physical exercises, almost after 1 hour i tooks shower and comes back to my desk and starts working, i works continuously till 1 PM and then i used to go for lunch, coming from lunch till 2 PM and again work, meeting till 6 PM, after this long work i mostly feel like tiredness, then i am leaving office and starts my bike towards my home, finally i reach home, takes tea, watching TV or Youtube videos etc... and takes dinner and sleeps, and the same story begins from the next morning. From Monday to Friday the same routine is being followed strictly, even i don't have the control to break this routine, my native town is Katihar, Bihar. Once in the year i usually visits to my native town to meet my parents for a very very short time i.e one week only.
I want to stay months in my village, i want to meet my all old friends of my village, i want to visit my sister's law's home, i want to spend time with my all relatives but i can not...! taking leave is like killing someone, bosses never allowed to take leaves... even in leaves they regularly calls on phone and forces to be present in meeting, to join some session to do some task etc... it is horrible
I want to take leave to visit my native town, i want to take leave to spend long holidays, i want to take leave for riding bike for very very long distance and wanted to explore the natural places, but it never happens... I cannot leave the job and take the break because i have loans on me and every month i need money to pay loan EMI on time, i do not have the any alternate sources of income currently so that i can fulfill my desire, therefore only one source of income forces me to continue my job even if i don't want.
That's why i said " I am in a Cage ", trust me... people like me are millions and millions in the world, but they are helpless like me, i am doing brainstorming daily to find the way to get off from this situation, i am continuously thinking to find the way of making money from some other alternate sources of income, but i fail.
My Situation is almost similar to the animals & birds of zoo or the place where they lives in a cage, their power and strength becomes zero and they never do whatever they want, their life becomes slave of someone else's.


We can see the hopes and pain in the eyes of the animals for freedom, they also want to fly to long long distance, they also want to run very very fast to a big distance, but they don't. Our nation might be free but not all the creatures of the nation. Humans are the social animal, but while working in a software firm or even any private job nobody is free, nobody can take a long break and meet to all the relatives, we can have to money but not precious time.

Trust me guys, we can by anything in the world with money but few things we can not buy, those are:
"Time", "Peace", "Relatives", "Breath", "Life", "Death", "Grace", "Sacrifice", "Love" etc... there are lots of such things in the world.

The most important thing is "Time", if we have time to spend with us, with relatives, with family then we can get almost everything from the above which we cannot buy from money, But working in a private firm we only not having i.e "Time".

My mother is sick and she is in my native home ( Katihar, Bihar), i want to go home to see her and to care her but i cannot make it because recently i took leaves at Diwali last year and i went home for almost 10 days where 4 days took on travelling via train, therefore i cannot take leaves now, my heart and mind both says together i.e "Go home, spend time with family", but i cannot, i don't know what kind of happiness i am searching while working and earning money. i know there are infinite opportunities are there in market, there are millions are the way of earning money but currently my mind is not coming with any solution, i am continuously searching the ways on internet and asking from friends to get something done for finding any source of income but not getting any idea yet.

What If i find the way of alternate source of income ?
     If i will find any way of alternate sources of income then below are few things i will do in my life stepwise:
1. Mentain Saving account balance
2. Close all the liabilities
3. I will spend maximum maximum time with family at my native village.
4. I will configure my bike for touring and will buy the necessary stuffs for tour such as Camera, Riding Jackets, Gloves, Boots etc...
5. Will ride and visit each corner of the India and outside India ( neighbor countries like Bhutan, Nepal.
I have a bike of Indian company i.e Hero Xpulse 200, i bought it on 13 Oct 2019, the purpose was touring and riding it, whenever i gets time i must ride the bike on heighway, but it is just riding and running the bike due to hobby only, but my dream is going long and long, but again "Leaves", boss will gets heart attack when i mention leave word...
Is this the life we expects...
Almost all the motivational speakers and great people says that "We should live our dreams, whatever is our dream we have to work for it" but in reality it is very very difficult, at the end of every day we need money to run the family and to fulfill the requirements, and if we decide to live the dream then instant money arrangement is very very difficult task. My heart's feeling is very very critical... i want to stop going office from tomorrow and want to pack my bags for touring but i am helpless, i need to go office... What kind of life i am living...

What i am doing to live my dreams and to fulfill my all desire ?
      There is no shortcut of success, therefore i need to make a long term planning with small small short goals, i am completely moving towards the writing profession, i am writing blogs, books, poems, stories etc... i already E-Published two books on amazon i.e "
India Tourism EBook" and "Love Story of an Engineer Ebook" , these are the books which i wrote with very less experience, therefore i don't know about it's writing quality but one thing i can say is it is having very very nice story inside it.
I started writing blogs actively from today, even this blog is the part of my goal therefore please provide your like and comments here, also share your suggestions related to the career where i can be the completely free and work from anywhere of the world so that i can travel and do research in order to fulfill my dreams.


Suggestion for the people like me ?
        Dear friends, if you think you are also in the same category where i am residing then my request is that you are still not late, but if you miss this time then you will be late, we all are running with the sort of time, therefore we need to work as early as possible, we need to use every second of the time, therefore start any work whatever you think is better for you and will give you financially freedom to achieve your goal, moving career from one domain to another is really very very difficult task and it sounds easy only in words, also it is not a short period, you have to believe on you and need to work years, after that only you can achieve but believe me you will definitely achieve and live your dream. There will be the situation when you will work hard but will not get any kind of output and response from the readers/customers/clients and markets, do not be panic, your time will arrive and you will be pro and rocking one day, "Just Believe on you and keep going, do not stop..."


Freedom lovers
        Guys, This is really a big big and very very big point which is loved by every single creatures of the world, even insects, bacteria, viruses and crops, everything...
We all love freedom, In this era we all are living in free country where we have all right to do everything if act does not harms anyone or anyone's belief, if our act does not disturbs anyone and our act is not anti national... wherever we want we can go, police is always there to helps us, we have government to helps us, but what about our dreams and financial condition... how it will be fulfilled, this is very critical question, i suggest everyone to live with dream even you are not earning money from it, just live it, Guys... Logically everything is difficult in this world, we cannot find anything easily, someone said "No Gain Without Pain", i just want to say that even we are living in a free country and doing whatever we can do, but if we cannot live our dream due to some condition, in this scenarios can i say that we are not completely free in terms of mental relaxation, mental satisfaction, living for our time etc...
We always need to find a way to live the dream and happy time of our life.

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Tuesday, 25 December 2018

Set priority and timestamp for each task

Time ..!! Dear Readers, Time is the wealth and time is only the assets in everyone's life, we always spend this wealth even if we do not want also .. therefore i observed time is only the game in the life span. Today i am going to share a thought which is the key point of every person in this world, we all want to success but we have huge work, we do not have the time to execute all the task, sometimes we wanted to collect 98% marks in exam but in actually we watch the TV or playing or doing some other task, we want to be a good cricket player but due to lack of time we do some other task and we invest our all the time, friends... it is universal truth that we all have only 24 hours of time in day + night, all the failed & succeed guy having the same time .. and we all have warehouse of works... it is true that we cannot perform all those tasks in such a limited time ... human gets thousands of idea and thoughts during the active hours in their mind, therefore it is our duty to select what we want, what activity we have to perform, which thought needed to be convert into action, so friends i tried to capture the things in following few points:

  1. After going to bed, think what are the activities you have 

     for tomorrow and what activities are very necessary to 

     do, so list all those activities.

 2. Set priority with all task

 3. Set timestamp with all the task, here timestamp means 

      block a time for all the activities.

 4. If everything is set then take deep breath and try to sleep.

Next day before leaving the bed, again memories the yesterday's bullet points that you decided for today, here take the time at least 10 minutes, think deeply and then leave the bed and start your work.. the activity should be perform as it is you decided without any disturbance ... we all are getting disturbance while working on something always or we have many medium which diverts our mind from one place to other, in current time we have TV, mobile phones, internet ..etc ..

Don't give the place of these disturbance between your activity or task you decided to do .. if you feels that using mobile is necessary or surfing net is necessary then keep these tasks in your activity list also and put small timestamp for it or whatever your want ... but decided activities should be executed like script without any barriers ....

Friends, it is very very important to utilize the time properly because time is priceless and once it gone it will never comes back, we are being old with every seconds and seconds are moving faster nonstop, therefore we have to move faster also. It is very important that we have to keep distance for nonsense activities, always maintain distance from unnecessary stuffs because it only waste our time and nothing more than that. 



Friends, it is true if you will executes your defined activities without any barrier you will feel very satisfied and improved, you will receives experience of the activity, and one day you gets the success.



We have to bound our-self with timestamp in every moment of life, for example sleeping is our daily activity but we do not have the specified time for it, we have to bound this activity also with time.. define 7-8 hours for it or more than that if you need it.. and after completion of that time leave the bed and start your work.

We should bound our dinner, lunch, games, movies, TV Shows or whatever activity we thing is needy, just bound with time.



I have a very nice idea for you, just take blank paper and a pen, make a 24 hour Analog clock, write your activity by blocking the time hours over the watch only, it is best way to remember.




and better if you pin this paper in wall of your study room or workstation.


I hope the concept is clear and i succeed to explain my thought well to all. Please comment your reactions or feedback, your feedback are key point for me to improve myself.


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