I need "Time" to live happy life

Hi Friends, I am a software engineer working in MNC ( multi national company), i have almost 7 years of working experience, why i am saying like " i need time to live happy life" because i am fed up with my daily life, there is a big reason behind it, i am observing that my life is bounded and feeling like i am tied tightly with some rope, i am surrounded with walls, i am feeling suffocation inside, i really don't like to go office daily as a tight time schedule and someone from office monitor me or handle me, i think i am not the single person around the world who think like this, there are lots of survey who says like approx 70% of IT engineers want to quit their job because they are frustrated or depressed at their working area due to work load and job safety security pressure, but financial need forces to go office and work in such conditions. But it is not that much simple to quit something existing and start something very new from scratch when you have the family load and responsibilities on your shoulder to fulfill the financial need of family members and payment of EMI, current active loan where EMI is going to the bank on a fixed time then we need to maintain sufficient amount in the bank account, in this case it is really impossible to move some other domain and start new things.

Spending quality time with family is difficult
I am living in Gurgaon and my native town is Katihar ( Bihar ), i want to go home on timely basis at least once in a month, but i can't, mostly once in the year i usually visit and maximum twice for one week only in the year, it is really annoying me, it frustrating me and demotivating to live, i usually criticize my life and current situation where i am, i want to go for long holidays but always saving my leaves for home and never going for long holidays... life is not like this... this kind of life i never expected... but it is truth now, i usually think "What most we need in our life ?" Answer to this question is "More Time", "Better Health" and "less money", if our health is very good and we have time to live our dreams and spend with family then we only need less money to survive but if 


Majority of software engineers and private employees are in my category, we are no where in any quadrant of "Robert T. Kiyosaki" ( Author ), we earns money only for paying loan EMI and credit card bill, we always struggles to reduce the debts and monthly expenses but it is never ending process, we are the victim of time and happiness.

From a very long time i decided to write the facts around the society and imaginations which is in my mind, and i thought like it might be the life changing for me, i have published 2 books till date in last 2 years i.e India Tourism and Love Story of an Engineer , but did not get any success on it till now, as a 9 - 12 hours working goat i never getting the time to spend on living my dreams therefore my writing activity is very very slow therefore book is getting years on completing... sometimes i thought to make writing full time but the scenarios i wrote above ( responsibilities and EMI ) stopped me, because making carrier in a very new domain is really a time taking.

I am following many writers, motivational speakers and youtubers who triggers the people to do something excellent in the life for getting success, they always use to spear someone's else or their story to motivate the people, but don't know how it works, it might vary person to person according to their financial and family condition... i want to be financially free so that i can travel every place of India via riding the bike without any problem and issues of financial and i am sure i will do it, currently do not know how it will going to happen but i will make it happen in the coming years.
Life is very very sort, 80% people gets health down on their 45 or 50 years of age, currently young people who starts being financially free at the later age like me on 30 years those people have no time to grow almost 15 or 20 years almost, no body know the health conditions and issues coming on it, Guys ... i think we all should get the goal maximum at the age of 25 years, so that we can spend our time to live the dreams ( travelling, exploring new places, spending time with family, long long holidays etc...).

At the age of 16-17 at my school time, i was thinking like money is the thing which is really needed for all the things in the life and everything we can earn or buy from money, whatever we want we can buy and bring the stuff near us by money... and it is also not wrong in some extent, but what about peace, what about the dreams and what about the "Time", we cannot bring these three element from money, I need Time at any cost to live my life and to spend with family. As a software engineer my life is completely spoiled and working for others takes my almost all the time from my life. Most of us things this is dead end and we cannot move to other aspect of work to fulfill our dreams, and i am thinking the same currently, but i believe one day i will make the difference... wish me for this...

Believe on your hardwork

I believe on hard work, someone says like "smartwork is always better than hardwork" it's true...! but finding a smart idea to get work done is also passing through the canel of hardwork, therefore hardwork is always remains, whatever we want to achieve we need to work hard and hard for that, "Trust" is the key element which we never need to leave at any moment of life... "Trust Yourself" always. Believe that the things you are doing or planning to do will fulfill your success goal. I Thinking to give the shape of ward to the society, to the world of present, past & future, to the imagination. And it will take the huge research, afford & hard work, "a proper word of a moment only spreads magic around us", in all the extent of the life i need the support of my readers and audience.

I am working on making the habits and discipline perfect in my life, because most of the motivations individual saying this, our habits and disciplines of life makes us whatever we are, and i think it might be required in my life also.

Life is journey and we all are travelling through it, time is the vehicle on which we all are sitting and this is only the vehicle of the world which have the same speed for all the creatures... we cannot increase or decrease it's speed, in this case we need to be organised under this limitation.

You all be the witness of my journey, whatever i will be and i will not be in coming future you all be there to support me.

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We are travelling via time

Dear Readers,
"We are tourist, earth is the land tour place, we will travel via time and one day return back to home"
Life is very cruical and we are the unwanted member of it, "Time" is like fuel of our life which burns with every seconds, therefore it matters a lot to us, we always need to care about it, wasting time is like spoiling everything, i want to share my today's lesson which i learned while relaxing on the bed, i finished my dinner at 9 PM and went to sleep because i was tired, i was looking to the spinning ceiling fan above me, i just thought about how old i am now, i started doing the calculation, i have subtracted the date of birth year with current year ( i.e 2019 - 1987) and it is 32 years, then i saw Sushma Swaraj dead at 67 years of age, Arun Jetly dead at the 66 years age similarly how much i can live, suppose if i assume it is 60 years then my remaining life is 60 - 32 = 28 years only, and it is very less time to fulfill the dream to achieve the goal, i surprised how fast time is moving on, it looks like i just dreamed my 32 years of life and this is not 32 years it is like a moment of second only. My goal is to be financial free and become a writer where i only write my experience, imaginations and reports of studies, how it would be possible in just approximate 28 years of time.

Guys, i am serious, please try to understand the core concept of life, it is for all creatures of the universe, time is very very cruel assets that you have in your hand, invest your time do not spend it, i always loitered my activity on tomorrow and tomorrow never came, now i decided to work daily on my goal at least 1 hours and expects from everyone for the same. We need to learn all those formulas which can be directly applied on our real life and complete our all the pending works as soon as possible, there may be gurantee of the home appliances or stuffs which you buy from market but there is no gurantee of life therefore close all the pending task as fast you can, also live life like you are preparing for war, complete the things very fast and mentain the quality always in all the tasks whatever you do, and most important is that try to live your dreams as much as possible, if you will not live your dream now then no body know that when tomorrow will come and what kind of situation will be that time.

We should live our life such a way that when we would be very very old we should feel pride on self and there will be the stories to share with someone, we should not feel the same thing which i felt and feeling shame on self.

In the current era almost 100 percent of the people are busy in TV, Mobiles and Internets, most of the youths are busy on social networking sites such as facebook, instagram, whatsapp, skype etc... people are busy on mobile video games, these days there are vast online video streaming companies ( such as Netflix, amazon prime, ZEE5 etc...) who launches web series where and these are completely time consuming and all innovative minds spends their time to watch/play/browse these services therefore we cannot even think about us that what actually we want and how to proceed ahead. These are simply the distraction which is in the competitive market to move your complete attention towards them and you will the consumer whole your life, friends try to understand this trap and save yourself from here.

We already spends our almost half of the precious time in playing, doing study from our birth to the bachelors degree, and it is almost 24 years which we simply waste and do not do anything except getting degrees, even industry is not working on these knowledge, in this case either we have to change our education system or only focus on the area of interest. All the innovators, players, scientists, painters etc... always focused on their area of interest, they never been the part of distraction.

Our live is a single photo capture, it either says nothing at the end or it creates epic, it all depends on our active work hours of our life span.

We should focus on below few points always:

    1. Save yourself from distraction ( TV, Mobiles, Musics, Movies, Video Songs, Social Media etc...)

    2. Count your sleeping hours ( bound your sleeping hours with time )

    3. Always target your active working hours towards goal

    4. Don't waste time with worthless friends or anyone by chatting or talking on unnecessary matters.

Actually we are nothing in this universe, even our loving planet earth is microbe sized in the galaxy and galaxy is microbe sized in the cluster, cluster is microbe sized in super cluster and super clusters are microbe sized in universe. We don't know how many intelligent civilization evolved and destroyed in earth, and we are one of them of those intelligent civilization, we don't know our end or it might be the population and pollution, in reality we don't know anything, our scientists and engineers invested their time therefore we are enjoying and having the resources to live a better life, similarly we should also do for our civilization.

It is true that we and our civilization would be the very ancient history like Dynasoure, the next intelligent civilization would do research on our fossils and our all the technology, inventions would be lost and it will again be the subject of research for the next intelligent civilization, only our precious books written on steel or stones would be the way of knowledge transfer.

We have very limited power and capacity, we can make changes on our country, society but we cannot fight against the nature and universe, we all are the call of universe.

Whatever we have we should utilized, whatever the capability we have we should use, whatever the intelligence we have we should apply and most important part is whatever the time   we have we should invest to think next next and next always, we should write, discover and save the knowledge for our coming generations and even for the next intelligent civilization after the annihilation.

Below pic also represents the distraction, we are completely bounded with threads of distraction, we and only we can save ourselves:

Death is the reality and nobody far from this, human can do anyting but have no control on death, we all be die one day, the only thing remains in the world i.e story & works you did, therefore we all should live enjoyable life and dreams. We should start contributing to society as much as early in the life, society makes the country if same behaviour comes to all children then they will also adopt the contribution behaviour and they spread these cultures to everywhere wherever they go, society gives us everything for the peaceful life and helpful people.
Our life is a one shot of lightning only, there is no return way of it, therefore we have to make beautiful to this one way road journey. Another way to see the life is like "we all are travellers and earth is the place, we all came here as tourist, we will stay some time here and then will go back", I hope i have shared my feelings & thoughts very well and probably the fact of story is well understandable. 

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Sushma Swaraj: A Woman of incredible India

Sushma Swaraj... A wonderful woman of  Incredible India,  No doubt India is the most peaceful and lovable place to live for all kind of religion around the world, all religion are safe and growing in India but there are no country in this earth where one religion is not an enemy of other except India, India was "Aryawart" the leader of whole world, the oldest education hub of the world and India is the land of powerful emperors and monks, India is the land of God ( India is only the place where God born).

 Therefore many many powerful individuals born, grew and spend whole life here, we can say that the India is a land of super intelligent and extraordinary soils, hence the land of India always nourishes the extraordinary people, in Indian politics the power starts from Sardar Vallabhbhai Patel, Indira Gandhi, Rajiv Gandhi, Lal Bahadur Shashtri, Atal Vihari Vajpayee, Sushma Swaraj, Narendra Modi, Amit Shah and Yogi Adityanath and we should not forget the Dr. A.P.J Kalam he was one of the most great leader and scientist who devoted whole life to built the country powerful, he is also awarded as the name i.e missile man of India.

We have lost many precious pearls from the limites lists, Sushma Swaraj was one of them, she born in 14th February 1952 after the 5 years of Independence day, she born in free India, her parents belongs to Lahore Punjab, they moved from there to Ambala Cantt India after partition, and here Sushma Swaraj born and brought up, she have competed bachelors degree in Hindi and Sanskrit, she was one of the great speaker in Hind of that time in Punjab, she has bee joined Supreme court as lawyer, She was one of the best lawyer of Supreme court, Her husband Swaraj Kaushal was closely associated with the socialist leader George Fernandes, and that was the entry point of the leadership of her, She also participated in Jayaprakash Narayana's total revolution movement. Later in the time of Emergency she joined BJP (Bharatiya Janata Party). After joining BJP she did the countless work for the citizen of India, she has countless achievements, below are few positions in Indian political career:

    1977–82 Elected as Member, Haryana Legislative Assembly.

    1977–79 Cabinet Minister, Labour and Employment, Government of Haryana.

    1987–90 Elected as Member, Haryana Legislative Assembly.

    1987–90 Cabinet Minister, Education, Food and Civil Supplies, Government of Haryana.

    1996       [16 May – 1 June] – Union Cabinet Minister, Information and Broadcasting.

    2000–06 Member, Rajya Sabha (4th term).

    2006–09 [April 2006 -] Member, Rajya Sabha (5th term).

    2009–14 [16 May 2009 – 18 May 2014] Member, 15th Lok Sabha (6th term).

    2009-09 [3 June 2009 – 21 December 2009] Deputy Leader of the Opposition in the Lok Sabha.

    2014   – present [26 May 2014–] Member, 16th Lok Sabha (7th term)

    2014–2019 [26 May 2014 – 29 May 2019] Minister of External Affairs in the Union of India

She was the powerful woman of India, she had a unique quality which only few extraordinary people are having i.e heart wining, she won the heart of millions of people not even of India also people of the Pakistan which is our enemy country,

She always cared and defended the woman, and always oppose those politicians who tried to dishonored, for example When Azam Khan (leader of Samajawadi Party) made a offensive remarks and dishonored against Jaya Parda while 2019 UP election, it is true that Azam Khan never honored the woman and it might belongs to their culture where woman have no freedom and rights of anything, Sushma Swaraj strongly opposes the incident, below is the snapshot of this incident :-

"Sushma Swaraj referred to the scene from the epic Mahabharata in which Draupadi is disrobed by Kaurava prince Duryodhana after the Pandavas lost a bet to their usurping cousins as she appealed to Mulayam to speak up.

“Mulayam Bhai - You are the father figure of Samajwadi Party. In front of you, Draupadi is being disrobed in Rampur. Do not make the mistake of being silent like Bhishma@yadavakhilesh Smt. Jaya Bhaduri, Mrs.Dimple Yadav,” she tweeted in Hindi.

The National Commission for Women (NCW) has taken cognisance of Khan’s “offensive and derogatory” remarks and decided to send a show-cause notice to him.

“Absolutely disgraceful ... we will request election commission to bar him from contesting elections,” the commission’s chairperson Rekha Sharma tweeted.

Rampur goes to polls on April 23 along with 115 constituencies across 15 states in the third phase of the elections. Eight seats in the politically-crucial state of Uttar Pradesh went to polls in the first phase on April 11"

This was the one of the example when Sushma Swaraj fight for the woman, she was loving the woman and children of all around the world.

She leaded the Operation Rahat, and she evacuated more than 4000 Indian from the outside countries such as Yamen during the 2015 Saudi Arabia army intervention  and this operation carried out successfully.

Her preparation was outstanding and she was speaking like a legend, for any occasion or meeting she was preparing very well and parse words by words of their speech before delivery.

She made a statue of honesty and service which each citizen have to follow.

She was one of the best people of India yet, she was unique in her personality of this era. We loose our very very precious perl and this is the loss of India, we will always remember you will follow your words to build the unity and peace of our country, we will always honor the woman.

Below are few twitter messages which is written by the great leader of era:
She was very kind heart and helpful woman, she was unique and only 1 in her type. Thanks to serve the country and Thanks to enrich us.

Below i have captured few twitter messages of her:

There are thousands of messages in twitter which is written by Sushma Swaraj Ma'am, it is not possible to capture all those, i have captured only recent messages.

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Convert Imagination to text is writing

Absolutely right, i observe the writing is not an easy task, it includes huge works and time to create a small story, it is very-very difficult act,  it is the process of continuous thinking and hours of imagination, it is very exciting and time consuming process, writing something is to explain the perticular subject deeply, it covers following few major points:

1. Continuous thinking

2. Depict you thoughts to paper

3. Selection of proper words and for building great sentence

4. Hours of imagination to imaging the characters and relations among them

5. Imagination of the story of each moments.

6. And finally conversion of those imagination into text which looks like real.

Above points are just my thoughts only, different-different people may have different kind of idea and openion  on this.

It actually excites you, while writing one story you did lots of research, your mind is been forcefully pressed to think deeply layer by layer, you visualize and feels the story, when you visualize the story in mind it looks like you are watching a movie but there is a difference, when you watch movie on TV you feel like you are watching a movie on TV and the story is going on inside the TV but whey you visualize story in your mind you feel like you are there, you are the part of story, all dialogues and sounds will clearly audible like reality, this experience is extraordinary.

I suggest below points to all of you : 

    1. Read books

    2. Writes books/story/blogs/passage/posts etc...

don't waste your huge time time to watch movies and web series, or set your time for all these things,  for time management i have already written a blog Manage your time, here you will learn to set your time for all your loving activities but before that you have to identify the things you love and want to do, after listing out set the time along with timestamp.

Visualization or Imagination is itself a great act, it makes you mentally perfect and great plan or idea maker, the continuous visualization process will makes you stress free and improve the mental health, your memory power is also increases, it is very entertaining because the actions happens inside your mind.

I assumes the writers are something similar as scientists, because scientists does many experiments and research before writing journal, research paper or before invention, same thing the writer does, writer also investigates, researches, imagination, visualize, finds good words and invents good passage/blogs/books.

Both kind of people invest their huge precious time on this.

Writing is not easy task, it covers lots of exercises and practices, sometimes you writes multiple pages and after that you finds something informal or incorrect in that, finally you tears the paper or rough the work, it is very tragic moment, when you invest days and night to figure out something and writes it into editor after that you changed your mind. So writing includes lots of hard work and requires huge investment of time, i find it is very excited but difficult task.

Writing gives you satisfaction when your thoughts and researches completely gets implemented into a paper and successfully gets published, it gives you great relaxation and also triggers you to move forward for the next subject of research and analysis.

Most of writer are lonely, and writers wants to be alone as much as possible, because loneliness gives the great idea and imagination been very clear in the mind also very less disturbance will gives the strength to write continuously for long time, also "Silence is beneficial" for the mind and health.

Everybody should Read and at least write something in the spare time, writing spreads your thoughts, idea, story, learning etc... to others, and easily globally available for everybody. Writing gives name, fame and wealth. Therefore please write whatever you have in your mind.

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Improve Yourself, Don't blame

Blaming to others is the fundamental process of

being relax and getting stress free in India, that's why i said this is the culture of India. I have noticed thousands of people and explored this perticular  theory, finally i observed that the almost 96% population of India love to blame for ther bad times or for any kind of bad things which happened with him to others.

    "Blaming is easy,

      Blaming is funny,

      Blaming is relaxable,

      Blaming gives comfort,

      Blaming feels proud,

      Blaming decrease mind's load and makes you light,

      Blaming makes you bum,

      Blame... Blame... Blame....!,

      Blaming is the culture of India"

I hope you understood the above lines, this is the footprint of Indian thought, here almost all the people blames for their bad things to others, the majority of people blame to the government for this, mejority of people blame to their neighbours and friends, these acts makes him/her relaxed but the problem remains same.

In India most of the people play the "party-party" game, the national problem being hide behind this game, all people like some political party or leader, if this kind of people finds any problem in system or any criminal activity in the country they started blaming the government they starts fighting on social media with friends and other people with their own thought, same thing media is doing, and it continues going on till few days and after that all things are being forgotten and people been silent, but the problem remains the same no fixing happens, in next case again same things occurred.

Here the problem i observed i.e of action, public does not takes any action on that, they does not want to take responsiblity on their solder, they simply blame the government, media blames the government, opposition blames the government. We should learn from Japan and Israel, the citizen's of these country are full of patriotism, i think the government are made by public and leaders are also coming from public, therefore if the people have the love and dignity of the country then never any bad things will happen inside the country.

I think government comes from the public therefore public is responsible for everyting, blaming to others make the things useless and there is no meening of it, and it directly impacts to the progress of country, if government is doing anything wrong or public finds anything incorrect then we do not have to blame the government or blame to any leader, we should do protest peacefully crores of public including media and government staffs will do the peaceful protest on the road then government have to listen about this, playing party-party on social media such as whatsapp, facebook will never results anything except tension.

I observed India is a super power now, and Narendra modi is a patriot leader, he love the country and always think about the progress and power of the coutnry, the leader like him will take the country on the top of the list of powerful countryl, in this situation public can also contribute and support to him, but still majority of the people tried to stop him and creates bastard and silly-silly issues and starts sharing massage on social medias.

No doubt India is the second largest country in terms of population and i can see clearly that India will be largest in this context, because India does not have any rule on population control, here the leaders also never takes this as a critical issue, public is also not serious about this, there is also very less mejority of poeple who really wants to control the population and forced government to make some rule on it but this is on social media and on TV only, things are not on the ground level. Population is like an atomic bomb which have the capability to distroy the entire world, i think the population is not the issue of any perticular country, it is the issue of entire world therefore whole world need to think on it, because population will eat and drink everything from the planet.
In this time whatever people want and if it is really beneficial for the country can be easily implemented, 5 years is the validity of each election after that the leader and government can be easily changed.

Therefore blaming to others makes the country weak and it also distroy your precious time.

Except blaming take the responsibility and fight for yourself, fight for the solders, fight for country for doing something good.

Revolution comes from the public and transformation also comes from people, therefore don't don't don't blame, accept the things and think to correct it from at least your side, also think how to fix the problem and what will be the best solution of it.

Instead of blaming if you do business, earn money, farming or doing job etc... then indirectly you contribute in the development.

India is super power and have powerful weapons to destroy their enemies, but the people from inside makes the country weak, internal crimes and unnecessary protests are completely illegal, and these acts downs the country's development. 

Blaming always downgrades the individual as well as other's performance, the majority blames (when huge number of people collects and protests for some silly things) downgrades the countries performance towards development.

If any honest government trying work then we should support instead of blaming and obstruct, obstruction makes the government back away from reality.

I hope you will never blame to others, you will accept the situation and fight for making it better.

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